In premarital class yesterday, The Pastor and his wife spoke on NON-Negotiables! When considering non-negotiables, a good starting point can be what things would end a relationship for you or what you would never tolerate. Try to distill this list as much as possible, finding the most critical pieces. Non-negotiables are the things that we will not accept or change. And they do exist. While this list probably shouldn’t be 20 items, everyone has at least one or two. It is important we decide these deliberately as opposed to realizing them after a relationship begins. Sharing your non-negotiables If you agree there are some things you wouldn’t give up and have determined these things, what next? Once you have decided your non-negotiables you have to share them in your relationship. It is important that once established, these are a part of your conversations. f you are in a relationship and haven’t already had this type of conversation, I would encourage you talking
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